Looking into the horizon

Nov 23 / Kathleen Belonga




As we near the end of 2024 and prepare to welcome 2025, it’s a great time to reflect on the changes you want to make in your life. First, ask yourself this question: Are you currently living in alignment with your values and goals?
Your alignment can reveal a lot about your current state of being and the direction you're heading in life. It reflects how closely your thoughts, actions, and values match up with the goals and aspirations you hold. If you feel a sense of peace, fulfillment, and joy, it’s likely that you’re living in alignment with your true self. On the other hand, if you experience constant stress, dissatisfaction, or confusion, it might indicate that aspects of your life are misaligned.

Taking a moment to contemplate the life you're living now compared to the life you aspire to can yield profound insights. How closely are you aligned with that vision? You might be asking, what does it truly mean to live in alignment? To me, living consciously in alignment means authenticity, transparency, and joy. It involves being in harmony with your values, desires, and intentions, while maintaining a clear awareness of your actions and choices.

Here are some tips on how you can start to cultivate a sense of alignment in your life.

Tip #1 - Create a Mantra or Intention

A few years ago, I chose the mantra of TRUTH for myself. I’m not just talking about the importance of honesty; I’m referring to being true to what I want, who I am, and how I genuinely feel. It’s about expressing myself authentically, regardless of others' perceptions. Every day, living in my TRUTH became my guiding principle. This journey has been nothing short of transformative. I've made significant shifts in my life, stepping away from unhealthy relationships—whether with family or friends. I’ve prioritized my own well-being, cultivating both physical and emotional strength. I’ve learned to say no to over-commitments and to stop giving myself away to those who don’t appreciate my contributions.

Last year, my intention was to manifest ABUNDANCE—for myself and for others. Slowly but surely, I began to notice a shift in my life. New opportunities blossomed, both professionally and personally. This year, I am wholeheartedly committed to continuing this journey of ABUNDANCE, and I can already see its positive effects!

Tip #2 - Make Time to Practice


The practice of yoga offers a fantastic chance for introspection. It allows us to examine our attitudes toward our bodies and the way we engage with our practice. This isn't just about the physical postures; it also encompasses spiritual and energetic dimensions.

Are you practicing with intention, or are you running on autopilot? Are you finding a balance between effort and ease, or do you find yourself forcing and tensing? Notice how you engage during your practice.

Are you carving out space for centering and contemplation, or is your practice simply another item on your to-do list? Do you approach energetic practices like breath work and Mudra hand gestures with ease, or do you find resistance? Are you focused on how you appear in the poses, or are you more interested in how you feel?

How do you respond to a slower pace? Sometimes, our eagerness to move quickly clouds our judgment, even when our bodies need gentleness. Are you experiencing stagnation that’s affecting your motivation—both physically and mentally? Recognize those moments when your mind feels sluggish, even though your body craves movement.

After your practice, how do you treat yourself? Are you rushing off the mat to tackle the next thing on your list, or can you appreciate the gift of silence and relaxation? Remember to prioritize time for restoring your body, soul, and mind; you deserve it!

Tip #3 - Take Time to Reflect


How often do you allow yourself to reflect after meditation or yoga practice? What lessons have you gleaned? How do you weave these insights into your daily life?

These reflections reveal much about what we truly value and how we relate to our bodies and the world around us.

Tip #4 - Reset


Once you become aware of the patterns and habits that no longer serve your highest self, you hold the power to let them go. Take this moment to pause and reset—whether at the beginning of the year or anytime you feel overwhelmed or off-balance. Recognize that feeling as an insightful signal that you may not be living in alignment. Embrace this awareness without judgment, make necessary adjustments, and continue your journey with renewed focus.

Move Forward Without Judgment


What does the upcoming year symbolize for you? What intentions will you set? How will you commit to living in alignment with your true self? Your experiences and ideas are precious, and I’m genuinely eager to hear from you. Please share your thoughts in the comments below!

Let's embark on this journey together with positivity and openness!


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